When you try to wear an oversize or undersize shoes, it either pinches or falls at each step. This simply means that the wearer will be in discomfort which is having to deal with injury or inability to get to his destination on time because of the draggy shoes. And at the same time, the impression of pedestrians walking alongside seeing the affected in such a scene could aggravate the discomfort. But on the other hand, the ones that put on a fitted shoes will wear a suit of confidence and a tie of comfort because they control the shoes by putting it under their control, rather than the shoes controlling their mood like the ones that forcefully put it on.
Some will say; if you are in my shoes, you will understand better. And a saying also goes thus; only God knows where the shoes pinches the owner. Your shoes could be anything: a dream, talent, challenges, success, failure and others in the same context. Let's take a look at some questions and appropriate answers to accompany.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRY TO PUT ON AN OVERSIZED OR UNDERSIZED SHOES?
Sometimes some individuals clamour on a dream just because they see others excelling in that area, so they forget that there are different strokes for different folks. And so in their quest of achieving this dream, they simply put on another man's shoes which is quite not fitted. These folks are always the complainers. They are not always comfortable in their bid to deliver well because the shoes they wear are not of their sizes. They only joined the crew because the shoes are trending and look beautiful on the outside without checking if they will be comfortable in it or not.
HOW DO I KNOW IF THE SHOES ARE FITTED ON ME OR NOT? I and my friends were going for a bridal shower after party at a club, and as soon as we got there, the bouncers asked for the membership identify which we couldn't tender. One of the bouncers said quietly "shoe get size". We were girls just in a fun mood to party, forgetting to check if we would be able to afford or fit into the balling system of the club. Always know your size, and by this, you don't have to try size 40 when your original size is 37. We all know where our talents lie, so we have every right to work on it to make us achieve every level we want to attain. I once forcefully bought an undersized shoe because of an interview i wanted to attend, and what I saw was pain. I was in discomfort all through the period I used outside my house, because I was not walking in a size that fitted my feet. My aim was to look good in the shoes, but I was suffering and smiling in pain. If what you are venturing into makes you uncomfortable, brings challenges that are out of place, or constant failure, then check yourself, you must have been in another man's shoes. Though challenges come sometimes while trying to attain some goals, but always have the instinct to differentiate between a dream that is meant to be pursued because you have the virtues, and a dream that is based on being like other people who have excelled in the field and neglecting your weaknesses.
MUST WE ALWAYS WEAR A DESIGNER BECAUSE IT'S TRENDING? If you have a designer with your accurate size, you are free to wear it, but if your size has not been made, do not try to purchase an over or undersized one to avoid walking like a guinea pig when you're actually a peacock. A dream hijacked because it is trending will only make one look like a clown. You can be tagged failure because of your series of let downs by your activities and you can loose your confidence once the people that look up to you stop believing in you.
HOW CAN I GET MY SIZE? You have your size and it might be better than those trending. I made a hairstyle at a time and all I got were compliments, I now thought to myself; this is just a cheap weave of N4000 per one and I got all these compliments, and yet some ladies with N65,000 brazillian hair seldom get few or no compliment. This implies that if your shoes look good on you, no one will question if it is trending or not. A dream well turned to a reality is often appreciated than a dream copied out of people's successes. Anderson does well in his business because he figured out what suits him, but Maxmillian is struggling to fit in the same business because he was not meant to be in the business. Check if your shoes are pinching you or draggy, then you have to get a fitted one to make you gain your confidence back. My friends and I enjoyed the after party of the bridal shower by going to a club where we needed no membership identity, and we had fun as well as respected as all ladies. You can only determine what you want by not joining the band, but doing what you can do well for your success not to be negotiable. If we cut corners to attend the club with identity, we might be underrated and definitely our night would be ruined.
DOES YOUR SIZE DETERMINE THE LEVEL OF YOUR SUCCESS? This is a capital NO! A man might be wearing size 37 and does better than one who wears size 42. This all depends on how fitted you are into the system by delivering your quota well and as well as succeeding. There are people with large empires with debt swimming in their pool in form of loans and there are people with moderate empires that can boast of good quantity of amount in their bank accounts. In all, it is to do what you can do well by not trying to be like other people especially when it is not your area.
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