Thursday, 21 March 2019

THE FEMININE STRENGTH


They are figures with virtually all the curves, the artistic work that required a rib for its creation, and the most useful creation in the existence of mankind. They are weak, and their weakness projects their strength, and they exalt in their beauty for the other gender's admiration. These productive humans are called women, woven and knitted together as the spice needed by every generation.

A woman can be the relief a man seeks or the pain that aches him. Behind a woman that relieves the pain of a man are days of scars covered with makeover, times of tears shed within, perseverance that chokes, and selfless services that count. A woman that aches like pain could have been a product of ill treatment faced while growing up, and her decision could be a choice, but in all aspects, women are the pain bearers for the home.

If I may take you down a research lane, a woman's comfort is always tampered with, following the homely responsibilities hung around her. Her conception process is not always an easy ride, and the delivery route is often filled with different bumps.  The children are always her baggage to move around with, home keeping is her divine calling, and the assistance pulled through career of her choice contributes to the economy of the home. Women are super humans borne out of multi tasking hole, with or without assistance.

Sometimes, her partner in a relationship and marriage determines her commitment. She needs the real care to function well in her capacity, and this brought the idea of partnership in marriage. People say she loves money, no, she needs care and attention, she wishes to have her necessary items, and she supports whoever she determines to support, and her loyalty remains until her partner reverses his pledge which can however turn her to his worst nightmare.


Wednesday, 30 January 2019

HAPPINESS



Happiness can be imaginary, and can also appear like a reality. Sometimes people tend to derive happiness from material things, hobby, lovers, family, and whatever they believe in, but in most cases they get failed when these people step on their toes by twitching the existence of happiness built around them overtime.

Happiness is a powerful tool to living a life of fulfilment, and it shares the same room with joyfulness. A life devoid of happiness might not be able to fulfil an in depth call of his dream because of the distraction of unhappiness mounted like pressure. An unhappy soul dines with illness, and this drags the body to an untimely grave. Sometimes an unhappy soul drags his success down because of its appearance to his destiny helper. A smile can sometimes cover the pit, but when expression comes knocking, his words are enough to put a destiny helper in a racing car.

Life is beautiful, and happiness is embedded in a way that it comes from within even when the situation is not palatable. Happiness is a decision. A decision to turn deaf ears to evil energy, a decision to ride with your conscience so clean like a new slate, a decision to smile and mean the aura, and a decision to always stay happy no matter what life serves. Life will always bring on its challenges, but happiness has a way of bowing circumstances to favour us, because we think faster while depression bids us farewell.

Thursday, 17 January 2019

LOVE LYRICS



WHERE IS THE LOVE?

We once had the love,
The love that did the bonding,
The love that made us united,
The love we used to break the Britain jinx.
The love we used to break the slavery,
The love we shared that gained access to inter-tribal marriage,
The love that made an Easterner a business man in the West.
The love that made the Westerner a sojourner in the North.
The love that made different people with multilingual differences to gain freedom into Independence in 1960.
That love has changed to hatred in the blink of an eye,
No ethnic group cares anymore,
Kidnapping, rituals, rivalry, killings, terrorism, victimization have replaced the love.
We want our young love back, the love so peaceful, calm and able to tolerate each ethnic differences.

©Dolapo Aruleba